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“Instead of possibilities, I have realities in my past” Viktor Frankl

By on Oct 26, 2014 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Reflect on the Richness.. “The pessimist resembles a man who observes with fear and sadness that his wall calendar, from which he daily tears a sheet, grows thinner with each passing day. On the other hand, the person who attacks the problems of life actively is like a man who removes each successive leaf from his calendar and files it neatly and carefully away with its predecessors, after first having jotted down a few diary notes on the back. He can reflect with pride and joy on all the richness set down in these notes, on all the life he has already lived to the fullest. What will it matter to him if he notices that he is growing old? Has he any reason to envy the young people whom he sees, or wax nostalgic over his own lost youth? What reasons has he to envy a young person? For the possibilities that a young person has, the future which is in store for him?No, thank you,’ he will think. ‘Instead of possibilities, I have realities in my past, not only the reality of work done and of love loved, but of sufferings bravely suffered. These sufferings are even the things of which I am most proud, although these are things which cannot inspire envy.’ “From “Logotherapy in a Nutshell”, an essay” ? Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for...

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10 Birthday Breakthrough’s

By on Oct 22, 2014 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

10 Birthday Breakthroughs Observations to embrace at any age Birthday Pondering’s:1. I am the age that I am ( will never be younger than I am~ okay I can go east and be hours younger.. but then there is a point where east meets west and I will be older – wait how does that work if I go to california I will be 2 hours younger …. but if I keep going east to new zealand I will be a day older… hmm where is the time sweet spot? 2. I am the height that I am (will never be taller than I am (accept with heels:) 3. I weigh what I weigh. 4. I really do get a kick out of myself. Much of the time I enjoy what I am thinking & saying to myself. 5. I can’t help but talk to strangers 6. I am ever so thankful for my health 7. I am ever so thankful for my family 8. I am ever so thankful for friends 9. I delight in simple things 10. My desire is to live so that each moment leaves me in a positive way~                              Forever Changed ~ Never More the...

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Stop Reinventing the Wheel! Take A Tip from Degas

By on Apr 9, 2014 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Take a Hint from Degas:  Creative Efficiency Art does not expand, it repeats itself. -Edgar Degas (1834-1917) Stop Reinventing the Wheel! A confession:  I struggle to not reinvent the wheel. When it comes to my workshops and speeches, I’m often starting over from scratch in some way. There are probably a few layers to this. All the way from poor organization to the need to be original and current. Fresh Trusting that what I’ve done before is valuable, worthwhile, good enough maybe even brilliant. Brilliant My advice: Take a hint from Edgar Degas. Edgar Degas was what I see as “creatively efficient.” That’s what I want to be too. (Spoiler Alert: This might change your perspective of art) Years ago, at a Degas Exhibit, I noticed there were similar images in his pictures.  Then I read that he would trace  images to copy his own art and use it again and again. Wow, who knew? I sure didn’t. He’d actually use the tracings to add to different pictures, and (this is the part I loved) reverse the image.  He’d turn over a drawing and rub it onto a fresh page,  juxtaposing the images for greater impact. Certainly history has proven that the way he went at his Art didn’t detract from his success. My first thought: Does this really count as art? I bet lots of people could do great work if they just traced or reused what they did well. It seemed like cheating. Second thought: Brilliant! Duh… doing over and over again what you do really well = Mastery This is Mastery. Mastery is one of the desires of my heart. And the desire reminds me of a time I attended an Art Show with my daughter. I was talking about something I’d just painted. She said “Cool, Mom, but all you paint is hearts.” I said “Yes, I know,” feeling a little discouraged. Then we came to the next set of paintings on the wall of the Gallery, and guess what? They were all of the same subject, only presented in slightly different ways. That began a deeper discussion. I reminded my daughter that many of the great painters painted the same thing over and over...

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